Tuesday, July 22, 2014

How Does Facebook Affect Divorce Rates?

Since the advent of Facebook, many people have reconnected in a way that was impossible before. When do the reconnections get in the way of a marriage? How does the use of Facebook affect your marriage? Read the article below to find out.

“If the preliminary findings in this study are sustained, it would represent an important step forward in the study of SNS and human behavior,” the researchers noted in the study’s conclusion. “It would also raise profound questions about the role of social media in daily lives. Finally, it would spur new lines of research in understanding the role of Facebook in divorce and marital satisfaction, prompting a host of policy-oriented research endeavors by social scientist.”

What You Need To Ask Before Fighting Over Your Children?

The number one thing that people argue the most over is the custody of children during a divorce process. If the arguing becomes too public and hostile, your children will only damage them long-term. How can you avoid inflicting too much conflict on your children? Here are ten questions to ask yourself before continuing a child custody battle.

Do you want your children to endure months of anxiety and uncertainty as to where they will be living and whether they will have the relationship they want with each of their parents and their siblings?

Update Your Will Before Your Next Big Trip

After a long,cold winter the first thing on everyone's mind is where they are going for vacation. This time of year is also the best time to tune-up your current estate plan. Reviewing your estate plan prior to a big trip is a common practice, and the article below helps you determine what to focus on.

In general, we suggest that you review your estate planning documents every three to five years to ensure that everything is according to your wishes. However, preparing for a big trip is the perfect time to pull out your existing estate planning documents and make sure that your executors, trustees and guardians are all still who you wish for them to be. In addition, make sure that the provisions for your family still comply with your wishes. If it has been many years since you completed your documents, there have likely been changes in both your life and the tax law since that time. Your Dinsmore attorney can work with you to make any necessary changes so that all of your documents are up to date before you set off on your next excursion.

How Does A Prenup Factor Into Estate Planning?

How does a prenup play into your estate plan? If there is a major age difference between spouses there may be a conflict if the elder spouse passes away and has children. Read this informative article for advice on prenups and estate planning.

For example, suppose a moderately wealthy woman with four adult children marries a somewhat younger man with few assets. The woman dies and upon her death her property goes to her new husband. A couple of years later the husband dies leaving what was the woman’s property to his own kids.

What Can You Learn From Lou Reed's Estate?

Many people know Lou Reed as the man who crooned "hey babe,take a walk on the wild side", but what you may not know is that applied the song lyrics to real life. For a man who was worth an estimated $30 million, he didn't act conservatively with his estate plan. Instead of a revocable living trust he relied on a will, and now his relatives can't avoid the public process of probate court.Read more about his situation below...

It’s much easier to file objections or challenges to a will in probate court, than to a trust which is administered privately, outside of probate court. Further, it’s much simpler for anyone to leave detailed instructions, with conditions, limitations, and suggestions, in a comprehensive trust document, rather than a will — even one that is 34 pages long. In fact, trusts can even help you when you are alive, but before you die, by addressing who and how your assets are managed if you are no longer able to do so. Wills can’t help with that.

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

What To Expect During The Divorce Process

So you have finally decided to start the divorce process, what happens now? Listen to your divorce lawyer about any shared financial responsibilities, and tread carefully in your personal life during this process. What else can you expect to happen when you file for divorce? Read below to find out more.

Expect to enter a bizarre time warp. It's rare that partners reach a mutual decision to divorce. Typically, one partner makes this decision and the second spouse gets dragged along. (Let's call them the "dumper" and the "dumpee.") In any event, in most states, when one spouse says it's over, it is. There may be hoops to jump through but if someone wants out of a marriage (and tells the court that the marriage is irretrievably broken) the court will eventually dissolve the marriage. Of course, before a couple can be divorced parenting and financial decisions have to be made and paperwork must be prepared and filed with the court. To the dumper, this whole thing may feel like it's happening in slow motion. And, for the dumpee, it moves at the speed of light.

Divorce Can Affect Your Financial Future

After spending years together, sharing traveling plans and family vacations, a divorce can be a deeply heart-breaking experience. The person that you thought you would have forever with is now separate from you and your future plans. It can be extremely difficult to even think straight during this time, but it is imperative to consider how this divorce will affect your estate planning.Read more about how divorce can complicate your financial future below...

One of the most overlooked aspects after a divorce is estate planning. People often forget to update the beneficiaries of their retirement accounts and life insurance policies. If your beneficiary forms are not changed, your ex-spouse may inherit a large portion of your assets in the event of your passing.